The reason why Jacqueline wrote this book​:
How to overcome your vaginismus
" I wrote this book for women with vaginismus and pain during sex, because I want to give you hope and tips to help you overcome your vaginismus. The strength of this book is that it contains practical detailed knowledge, techniques, and exercises, underpinned by my own experiences, and those of the women I have coached."

Jacqueline van de Bilt is not just a coach, but as an experience expert, she found out for herself what it was like to overcome her vaginismus, step by step. HOW TO OVERCOME YOUR VAGINISMUS is a self-help step-by-step plan. Every step is being explained, so you will know exactly how and what you can achieve with each step. The strength of this book is that it contains important, practical, and detailed knowledge, techniques, and exercises, supported by her own experiences and by those of the women Jacqueline has guided.Jacqueline van de Bilt (1967) has completed her Social Work studies, because helping people has always been her passion. After that, she has worked as a counsellor for different organizations. Currently, she is working parttime at two different doctors offices, as an assistant practitioner mental health services.
After Jacqueline overcame her own vaginismus, she was inspired by other women with vaginismus to share her experiences, knowledge, and advice. She started to explore this subject even more. In 2006, next to her parttime job, she started guiding women with vaginismus and pain during sex. During the past couple of years, she has developed her own methodology, based on her own experiences with overcoming vaginismus, and on those of the many women with vaginismus she has guided.