The Same but Different offers insights on and solutions to the challenges that arise when young adult twins are expected to be independent, self-assured "singletons" after having been raised as twins.Written for twins, their families, and significant others, this book - Instructs twins how to have an honest, authentic relationship - Explains why twins may feel disappointed about friendships that don't match the twin connection - Teaches twins how to work through their guilt about wanting more space - Discusses why some twins are afraid they might never love anyone else as much as they love their twin - Reveals how influential twin connections are in choosing a spouse, a profession, and a place to live - Offers tips and strategies to navigate the issues of separation, individuality, and codependence - Provides insight and understanding to families and significant others coping with twin struggles