Chances are, you're either looking for love or looking for advice on how to improve the relationship you already have. Now the dynamic motivational speaker who taught America how to create a fulfilling life shows us how to build a healthy, happy love life. If Love Is a Game, These Are the Rules features Cherie Carter-Scott's trademark breakthrough advice illustrated by illuminating, heart-warming true stories. Based on 25 years of conducting workshops on creating healthy relationships, these new inspiring messages are destined to capture the hearts of women and men around the world. The 10 Rules of Authentic Relationships 1. You Must Love Yourself First 2. Partnering Is a Choice 3. Creating Love Is a Process 4. Relationships Provide Opportunities to Grow 5. Communication Is Essential 6. Negotiation Will Be Required 7. Your Relationship Will Be Challenged by Change 8. You Must Nurture the Relationship for It to Thrive 9. Renewal Is the Key to Longevity 10. You Will Forget All of This the Moment You Fall in Love